My last day as one os Autodesk representative in KL, Malaysia.

Been busy since the last 3 weeks but that doesn’t stop me from updating myself for latest handbags n shoes design in the market. Admiring Coach collection and really hope that I could afford a piece of large tote some day.

With a new resolutions, hope this new place will allow me to earn as much as I want

I’ll be part of Patimas Software Team by Feb 4th, 2008.  Wish me luck!!!

Yes, my eldest daughter turn to 7 years old today.

Almost forgot about her birthday but we able to get a birthday cake for her..

For Nisha, Happy Birthday!!

Wish that one day she’ll visit this page to see this

Ad-hoc birthday cake bought @Jusco with 15% discount ;) 

Celebration started!!! 

Happy birthday to you… Happy birthday to you…

‘Adam’s aiming for the candles / cake???’ 

Iman pun tumpang sekaki…

If I’m not mistaken, Today is Hazeq’s birthday. Since he’s studying in Japan rite now plus, I do know how to contact him, so hope that he enjoy his life to the max!!

Happy Birthday from us sefamily

p/s: gambo cake je la nampak nyer..

There are 5-months and 5-days today.

We run through a career test emailed by Emma earlier. The result for Ariff really makes me laugh with a BIG HAHA.. suitable job for him is to be a Prime Minister. If it’s happen, we as the parents will be proud & grateful, if not, it’s ok. Not a big deal. For Ariff, you need to use your own pocket money to enter politics world ok.

Adam Danish - Last weight at 7.5kg on Jan 12th,08

Ariff Danial - Last weight at 6.5kg on Jan 12th,08

p/s: Photo taken from here

Menghitung hari, detik demi detik..

The time is almost there. It’s about time for me to tell all of you where’s my new workplace.. oops, not now, later.. in February

I can feel the fire burning. Haven’t done with my product study yet. No time to gather all my contact list. Hmm.. I’m not sure whether I don’t have a time to do so or I am lazy.

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Found this article from The Star Online. Very interesting. I started to wonder why my housing area still not in the TM’s coverage yet. It’s not in Kulim, not in Kepala Batas, it’s in Seri Kembangan, behind Kinrara’s Golf area, near TPM but no TM / Izzi / with Limited Jaring Wifi connection (after we place the AP outside the master bedroom’s window) ??

There’s

For all these years, I didn’t realize that I am working in Selangor. So every year during Thaipusam, we entitled a holiday eventhough we don’t have an indian in our office. But since the last 2 years I work in KL, I did felt something ain’t right during Thaipusam Celebration last year. Eh.. It’s not because of the celebration ok? It’s about the holiday!! yes!! holiday!!!

Our beloved PM’s had announced Holiday for KL & Putrajaya on Thaipusam Day. I am so excited about it.. Thanks PM. So for those who work in KL, we have lots of holiday for a year..

Will there be a holiday for Thaipusam next year also??

at 29 years old, yeah.. going to 29th this year, I still doubting my decisions, whether I am doing the right things or not. Especially a decision to move from the industry that I’ve been doing now, been recognised after 10 years. I do have a doubt even I can see money sign blinking in my eyes.

Today, after a short discussion with my bos, I keep on thinking.. Am I making the right move or not.
Being recognised in the industry is not an easy job. It took me years and loads of efforts. In these 10 years, from a ‘dun know anything’ girl (I am 18 years old when I first join this industry) to technical support to product sales, a certified instructor to a person who could consult people on how to deisgn things the right way.

Still remember the first time, I weight 52kg (now more more than that ), with 169cm tall, wearing a long skirt and a piece of tight shirt with a thick blazer carried 16 pieces of thick AutoCAD R14 boxes to Texas Intrument with my senior, Josephine. During the installation, those engineers eyeing on us.. yes, I’m young, slim, with lots of energy that time.. Many phone calls received from unwanted people NOT for technical support but invited me for a dinner.. but it’s always a NO NO answer from me. Not interested. Till I join another company, started to involve myself in big projects e.g. Ericsson, MAS, etc.. a fren told me once ‘awe, nizza tu I segan skit nak cakap dgn dia. Dia tu nampak professional giler.. mcm tak leh kautim jer’ .. that phrase is from a person who dunno me much….. hmm.. what ever it is, I’m still the best person from my superior eyes, Mr Yap. Even till today He is like my god father.. Help me a lot, never stop to motivates me.

From a girl who could earn up to 3k a month in 1998, and up to 10k a month in 2002, I still have numerous debt to settle till today.

A very long story to recap. It’s more that 10 years.. wont be enuf for this page.. I wish I could return back time so that I would’nt spend so much on credit cards. But I can’t do so.. (I won’t even if I could) Hey, why should I? I have a wonderful family, a great husband to depend on (sometimes) and 4 adorable kids!!

What makes me move?
the product? YES
the organization? YES
the money? YES.. I am the real materialistic person..
the people? NO
the superior? YES-NO
the job? YES.. different responsilibity, it would measure my creadibility.. I am challenging myself here
the benefits they offered? YES & NO
the facilities? YES YES & YES. I could spend my weekend in the gym & sauna the kids can enjoy the swimming pool (we dun hv swimming pool at home ) aaaa… here I would save my money for Fitness First ler..

From my subsconcious mind — ahhh, what the heck.. decision have been made.. move means move. I have to define my priority too… (cakap kat hubby pandai kat diri sendiri, terkemut-kemut eh.. ) money that we earn will never get enuf.. expenses increase every year.. The main reason I move from my comfortzone to the new industry is to earn more dolars…… I’ll never know whether it’s right for me till I try it myself.

hehehe… mumbling jer.. nothing more………… cheers!!

I thought…

I have to remove the ‘I thought’ so I dont have to put on hope.

Some will be replace with I believe.. and some, I need to keep my mouth shut.

Got this from a friend.. “Bila Isteri dah tak cun”..

“Untuk renungan dan perhatian isteri2 dan bakal isteri…
Pembaca Semua,

Saya ingin berkongsi pengalaman ini dengan semua kerana saya ingin puan2 tahu apa sebenarnya tersirat didalam benak sesetengah suami dan bagaimana dia melihat kita di kaca mata mereka.Walaupun mereka tidak pernah komplen tentang perawakan kita tetapi disudut hati mereka mereka menilai secara diam2 dan membanding kita dengan perempuan lain.Barangkali suami puan2 tidak begitu tapi ini boleh jadi panduan.

Saya seorang isteri baru berusia 29 tahun dan mempunyai 3 orang
anak,perawakan saya biasa sahaja,tidak lah hodoh,sedikit gempal setelah melahirkan 3 orang anak. Saya berkerja sebagai seorang eksekutif dan suami saya berkerja biasa saja.

Kebanyakan belanja rumah seperti ansuran rumah dan kereta saya yang menbayarnya demi suami yang mempunyai gaji tidak seberapa.

Suami saya boleh lah dikatakan menarik jika dibandingkan saya,tinggi,putih dan menarik minat ramai perempuan semasa bujangnya.

Saya mengabdi diri seluruhnya untuk rumah tangga,pagi sebelum pergi kerja saya akan masak utk anak2, sarapan utk suami,saya memandu sendiri ke paejabt dan setelah balik ke rumah pada petangnya saya lah yang menyediakan segala keperluan rumah tangga.

Sepanjang perkahwinan suami tidak pernah komplen pasal perwatakkan saya,saya memakai tudung,dia nampak biasa saja,tetapi dia tidaklah sentiasa tertarik kepada saya semasa di rumah seperti cuba mencium saya,memeluk atau memegang saya,biasa shj kami akan bersama bila waktu malam apabila dia perlukan sya.

Baru2 ini saya mendapat tahu dia mempunyai kekasih di tempat kerja sendiri.gadis tersebut bukanlah muda dari saya tetapi sudah berumur 30 tahun, saya mendapat tahu juga yang suami saya sering ke rumah gadis tersebut semasa waktu kerja.Hubungan yang terjalin nampaknya telah smapai ke tahap sex.

Bila saya bersemuka dan bertanya kepadanya,pada mulnya dia menafikan..tetapi setalah di kemukan bukti dan sebagainya baru dia mengaku.Saya ingin tahu kenapa dia menjalain hunbungan,apa kurang saya,dia akhir berterus terang mengatakan memang tiada apa yang kurang dengan saya,saya menjaga makan minum,membantu kewangan,menguruskan rumahtangga dengan baik tetapi saya hanyalah setakat itu shj tiada rangsanngan lagi bila melihat saya.

Baginya dia kadangkala ingin bersama wanita yang dilihat cantik,menarik minat lelaki lain dan bila berjalan sama menimbulkan cemburu pada lelaki lain.Dia dengan berani memberitahu saya bahawa teman wanita nya mempunyai kuku yang cantik,perut yang nipis,bau yang sedap,fashion yang menarik.Sedangkan saya menurutnya walaupun tidak hodoh teteapi hanyalah wanita yang sangat biasa saja,kuku saya pendek dan kadang2 rosak kerana memasak,rambut pulak kadang2 berbau bila balik kerja kerana bertudung sepanjang hari,perut saya pula tebal tidak menarik dirumah bila hanya ber t shirt dan berkain batik.

Hari2 melihat saya dia merasa tiada apa yang dibanggakan tentang saya,bercakap dirumah pula hanyalah tertumpu pasal rumah,anak2..tiada topik menarik separti teman wanitanya yg boleh bercakap pasal politik, carreer, mempunyai taste yang tinggi dan dapat membantu dia mengenali dunia yang baru mengaenai fashion,korporat,jadi dia merasakan seperti lelaki yang berjaya bila bersama wanita tersebut.

Memang saya akur tentang perawakan saya kerana pertama memang saya dilahirkan begini,kedua sya terlalu sibuk untuk membelek diri sendiri,ketiga saya tidak mempunyai cukup wang untuk berbelanja sepenuhnya untuk kecantikan.

Begitulah hati budi lelaki sebenarnya walau bagaimanapun kita menjaga dia tetapi dia masih mementingkan fizikal jauh disudut hati ingin bersama wanita menarik yang boleh menbuat dia berasa bangga.

Saya telah pun berpisah dengan suami sekarang tetapi sya tidak lah duduk meratap tetapi menghadiri slimming session dan membelanjakan duit separuh untuk kecantikan bukan untk lelaki tetapi untuk kepuasan sendiri,biarlah saya pendek dan sedikit tembam tetapi saya berazam untuk menjaga kebersihan dan kelihatan menarik.”

 From my humble opinion :

Lelaki mana yg tak usha pompuan cun? yg pakai seksi meksi? yg outstanding bila in a crowd?

So, Who should learn? THE WOMEN, i thought.

1. Don’t spend all your money for them girls.

2. Who should pay all utility bills, house rent, astro bill or all other bills? THE HUSBAND. It’s their responsibility btw.

3. Upgrade your knowledge gals!! Dun b like ‘katak bawah tempurung’.. Share new things with hubby.. politics / fashion/ work/ or any matters under the sun.

4. ARGUE .. an argument makes your relationship stronger + you’ll learn something.

5. Show off what you have.. anything dear.. everything..

6. Belanjer makan.. jgn asik guys yg belanjer.. show that u hv the money too.. how much? syyyy..keep it to yrself.

7. Reward. I loves reward.. so do the guys..

8. Activity.. keep some money for family activities. Hv a year end vacation, etc to keep the relation closer.

9. Follow up closely.. ask ask n ask where is he day / nite time when they are not with us.. keep in touch beb!! kalu belum kawen, phone asik je bunyi.. sms every second.. do the same even masa u dah ada 5 orang anak / cucu!!!!

10. Show yr jealousy.. kan cemburu tu tanda nyer sayang

10. above all, tolerance is the most important factor in a relationship.

Women is a special creature. Show your power gals!!!!

Hubby wanted a Macbook Pro which cost me around RM7,000…

He promised to buy me a designer handbag LV & Coach.. 2 pieces… btw, he insisted to get me LV..

Worth it or not ???